Every guy knows what it’s like to struggle to try and get women. Hey, we spend a LOT of our lives trying to figure this very thing out. When you feel like you just don’t get what it is that attracts a woman, it can be very frustrating. It’s not always easy to try and get a handle on this issue, but don’t fret to the point where you just decide to give up. Many guys do and they just assume that they will never get this portion of their life handled.
Here are some tips on how to get women that should help you out:
- To attract women, you need to make yourself get noticed.
Guys that sit back in the background and hope that by some serendipitous intervention a woman will just cross their path, they are the ones that always wind up waiting and waiting. You have to work on getting yourself noticed so that you DO stand out. It’s not like in the movies when the good guy just happens to run into the super hot female by some random chance encounter. You have to stand out and make it happen.
- To get women to want you, you need to be able to talk to women.
You don’t have to be a «smooth» talker to get women to want you, but you do have to be able to hold a conversation that intrigues her. Shooting the breeze the way that you would with your guy friends is not going to do much to make her want you. It may make her like you, but only in a platonic way. Instead, you need to be able to use conversation as a way to build both rapport and attraction with her.
- Women want men that know how to lead them.
This is not to come off like you are supposed to dominate a woman, but you do have to show her that you can lead her once in a while. Here’s an easy example of what I mean: You call up a woman and ask her out on a date. She says yes. Then, you ask her what she wants to do. Most of the time, they will say something like, «I don’t know.» That’s your cue to show that you are a leader and make the suggestion. Don’t go back and forth with the typical,